todd defren, jason calacanis and jason falls -
are you done yet? are you done crying over spilt milk? are you done making sweeping generalizations about “millennials” and “loyalty?” you dudes are older than i am - i get it. everyone who’s younger than someone else gets it. we’re here making the same mistakes you probably did and we’re also here trying to make our own mark on the world. do i want to be just like you? no, not in a long shot. does it mean i don’t respect you? no, not in a long shot.
i rarely go into all-out “bitch mode” on the web because i’m tired of all the crap that’s already out there. this technology is moving our entire society forward and 96% of it is complaining. i’m not into it - anything i like to produce in a public domain, i like to be constructive. but, in this instance, i’ve succumbed. your posts have been eating away at me ever since you hit “publish” and, quite frankly, i’m tired of being bucketed.
will you turn this argument right back around on me? probably, but i don’t care. it’s my blog. same goes for you - i’m not saying your posts aren’t allowed to be there or your advice isn’t sound, i just feel like you’re pointing out problems with someone’s attitude and work ethic and pinning them to an entire generation (i’m 27, i’m a millennial, right? millennial, btw, is a stupid name. my name is john - call me that).
i learned the value of hard work and having a positive, forward-thinking attitude very early on in my career. was it while i was standing at a printer waiting for a way-too-long powerpoint deck to print out? no. it was when i was building houses with my cousin during college summers and it was when i worked very hard during my internships, being very open to learning new skills and applying my unique points-of-view to the work i produced. along with a terrific family, great parents and being raised properly - this was my base. you choose your experiences in life and these help shape who you will become. are your posts products of your employees or colleagues not having this solid base? maybe. probably. not my problem and i don’t think your bastings are effective modes of recourse.
am i perfect? no, i have a lot to learn and i’m positive that i’m worlds away from where i could be. do i have an overwhelming urge to skewer “millennials” everyday? no. and i wish you didn’t either. it bums me out when i see so much passion and energy thrown away on an amazingly subjective issue. wouldn’t it have been better to set this example in your own work ethic, conduct and business environments? i just feel like that’s where this is appropriate and not part of sweeping, sensational, public generalizations. to be honest, if i was your employee, seeing posts like these tell me exactly what i’d need to know.
when my friends and peers ask for advice, i tell them the same things i just typed. it takes hard work, the realization that no one else is looking out for you, and a positive, forward-thinking attitude. these things will take you much farther in this world than you’ll ever realize. it doesn’t matter how old i am, what time of night i sent an e-mail, or what i do for a living. if i stay true to myself, the people i love and live this life to the brim - then i’m good.
i’m going to step down from the pulpit and get back to work. i hope you can do the same.
a firm handshake,
john