you are not in control.

without divulging too much personal information, it’s been obviously clear today that no one was ever and meant to be in control of their own lives.  time and the circumstances of others whisk you along.  it doesn’t matter what you’re doing.  drop it because you’re being tugged on the arm by inevitability.

what you do have control over are the decisions you make in light of others around you.  memory and story are made on the backs of what you decide to do without.